Excerpt: Finding Joy and Laughter

As part of the blog tour, today I wanted to share a little excerpt with you. There are so many parts of The Jane Austen Guide to Life that I’d like to post, but this is one of my favorites–a few bits from the chapter on Finding Joy and Laughter.  Enjoy!

Finding Joy and Laughter

Jane Austen was buoyant. She lived with energy and joy. It’s impossible to read her letters and books without coming away with the sense that she was something of an irrepressible force. She laughed at herself, at the everyday world, and at everyone around her (mostly all in good fun)—and she welcomed having them all laugh at her. But if she relished laughter, there was more to that vital spirit of hers. She wrote to Cassandra of a ball at which she had “had an odd set of partners”: “I had a very pleasant evening, however, though you will probably find out that there was no particular reason for it; but I do not think it worth while to wait for enjoyment until there is some real opportunity for it.” So she did not “wait for enjoyment,” she simply took joy wherever she could, and as much as possible. Continue reading »

Giveaway at Jane Austen Today

The lovely Jane Austen Today blog is hosting a giveaway for The Jane Austen Guide to Life.  For a chance to win, simply enter a question you would ask Jane Austen if you could. Enter by May 15. I’m loving the responses:

Oh goodness, I would ask her so many questions! At the top, though, I’d ask her which of her male heros she loved the best. The’re all fantastic, but she has to have a favorite, right? – Becca A.

I would ask her if the novels she wrote made it difficult to live in the real world with real characters. – Kerri

There is so much about Jane that we don’t know, so I’d ask her to fill me in. If she doesn’t throw me out, I would fix a large pot of tea and ask her if we could discuss each of her heroes and heroines from her novels and how they came about. – Felicia

Also, the giveaway over at AustenProse ends today, so get on over there and post a comment.  The other giveaway at Austenesque Reviews ends this Saturday, May 12.

Blog tour: Review from Jane Austen’s World

Many thanks to Vic at Jane Austen’s World who posted a lovely review today and gave The Jane Austen Guide to Life 4.5 out of 5 Regency tea cups:

Lori Smith’s  The Jane Austen Guide to Life: Thoughtful Lessons for the Modern Woman continues to inform us about our lives through the lessons that Jane Austen and her characters can teach us. Like her first book. A Walk with Jane Austen, Lori’s clear writing style is a delight to read. One can almost hear Jane speaking through her words. This book is a wonderful gift for mother’s day, for mothers to give to their daughters, and for men to understand the mind of a fine woman. It is also delightfully illustrated.  (Read the whole thing here.)

 

Blog tour: Austenesque Reviews

Second stop in the blog tour today is over at Austenesque Reviews, where Meredith gave me the chance to do a guest post — and we’re giving away another copy of the book.  Just comment on the post to be entered for your chance to win.

One area that I know Austen would want to caution us about is the idea of romance. We get caught up in it, in the idea of “just knowing” that someone is right for us, in the thought that there will be a moment when a guy walks into a room and—suddenly!—life will sort of snap into place. We will fall hopelessly in love and there will be that happy ending we’ve been looking for. For Austen, though, as much as this may surprise us, love was as much about thought as about feeling. She wanted her heroines not just to fall in love but to think their way there as well. To slow down and carefully examine a guy’s character and reasonably assess whether or not he would be good for them, feelings aside. It’s a concept that may sound strange to us today, and one I wish I had gleaned from Austen sooner.  (read more)

Other blog tour events have been delayed a bit because there was some kind of glitch and books are still making their way to bloggers.  Hoping to have that all resolved very quickly.

If you have a blog and would like to be part of the tour, drop me a line.

Release day!

So the official release day for The Jane Austen Guide to Life is here!  Excited to see this baby go out into the world.  This day has come faster than I thought it would.

Amazon’s actually been shipping for a couple of weeks, and some bookstores may not yet have the title on shelves (sometimes it takes a little longer), but officially, the book is “real” now.  Kindle and Nook versions aren’t yet available, but I’m hoping they will be soon. Just waiting, at this point, for Amazon and B&N to process those files.

Yesterday I stopped by Barnes & Noble in Fairfax, by Fair Oaks Mall.  They had the book, and I was thrilled to discover that it will be placed on the front “New Release” table. (Sad truth — publishers pay for that kind of placement.) They went ahead and put them out a day early, after I signed them.  I’m thrilled!  Took these pics on my little phone.

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Blog tour begins!

Wonderful to start my blog tour this morning with a post over at Laurel Ann’s lovely AustenProse blog, sharing the inspiration behind The Jane Austen Guide to Life, what I hope people will take from it, and how it’s been a gift to me.  Laurel Ann is also giving away three copies of the book!

I’m thrilled I was able to write The Jane Austen Guide to Life, but I can’t fully take credit for the idea.  A while back, an email unexpectedly popped up from an editor I hadn’t heard from in a while, one I’d always wanted to work with.  She’d been thinking, she said, about a book that would combine a light biography of Jane Austen with practical “life lessons” for the modern reader, drawn from Austen’s life as well as her books.  I thought for about fifteen seconds and concluded, “Yes!  That book should be written!”  And that was the beginning.

As normal as it seems to me to take advice from Austen—I’ve loved her writing for years, even followed her life through England for my last project, A Walk with Jane Austen: A Journey into Adventure, Love, and Faith (2007), —I thought it might seem strange to some.  After all, Austen was an 19th-century spinster.  She wasn’t terribly concerned about fashion, knew nothing about platform heels, and, if she’d had the chance, she very well might have married a first cousin (as was common practice back then).  So what could she possibly teach our modern selves?  (Read more…)

Jane Austen’s Self-publishing Success (and what we can learn from it)

Did you know?  Jane Austen was self-published.  Yes!  Can you imagine?  Jane Austen — one of our Best Writers Ever — could not get a publisher to take a chance on her.  And not just for her first book.  Three of the four books published during her lifetime were self-published.  (I must thank Juliette Wells for drawing my attention to this in a conversation we had a couple years ago.)

Of course, writers love hearing stories like this, because if you’re having trouble getting a publishing house to take you on, it makes you feel like maybe you aren’t the problem.  Maybe you really are an unrecognized genius who will go down in the annals of history as having permanently changed the course of the novel and your works will enlighten readers for hundreds of years to come.  The publishers are wrong about you, just like they were wrong about Austen. Continue reading »

Loving these illustrations

One of the things I’m excited about with the new book is that my publisher commissioned thirteen original illustrations, one for each chapter.  Thrilled they invested in this project that way.  They’re done entirely in pencil by graphic artist Dave Grant.  The style is a little different than I was first anticipating, but I love the way they turned out.  My publisher gave me permission to post just one, so here it is… from the first chapter, Becoming a Woman of Substance.  Love it!

 

Life & health

It’s been more than three years since I’ve been able to blog, and now I’m not sure where to start.  As readers and friends know, after dealing with a mysterious chronic-fatigue-inducing illness for years, I was diagnosed with Lyme disease in 2006.  I rejoiced to finally have a name, to know that it wasn’t in my head, and to have a plan of action for treating it.  Health seemed possible again.  But the journey getting back to health has been far more than I ever bargained for.

I assumed with my determined spirit and no-holds-barred approach to getting well that I could lick this thing in a matter of months.  I had no idea how sick I was and how little is known about chronic Lyme and how to treat it. Or that the treatment would, in some ways, be harder than the disease itself.

Eventually, my journey with Lyme will be a book.  (Actually, I was under contract to write that book, but was unable to finish it — ironically, because of the Lyme. Ugh.)  It’s been by far the most difficult thing I’ve ever had to deal with.  I can’t put into words what I’ve lost because of this illness — the years of not being able to work, the years of not being able to simply get off the couch and live.  I’ve faced depression unlike anything I ever could have imagined.  But — while I would never wish this on anyone — I also can’t put into words what I’ve gained.  An understanding of God’s great mercies, expressed so tangibly through family and friends.  The way this has molded me into someone different and in many ways better.  A sense of protection and strength in the midst of horrible vulnerability and weakness. Continue reading »